embracing stardom

Be Gay, Be Good and Be Proud

2006-08-12T02:10:00.000-07:00

This week spelled so much fuss over the battle of gay impersonator Inday Garutay, who cried discrimination after he was ordered to leave a restaurant in Ortigas for reportedly dressing inappropriately. The incident happened last July 4, but it's still generating much talk since Garutay appeared before the Senate last Wednesday for the hearing of Senator Bong Revilla's Anti-Discrimination Bill. For sure, the discriminating restaurant called Aruba at the Metrowalk in Ortigas is now having a dose of its own medicine since it could no longer have the so-called "pink peso" in its cash register, as the gay and lesbian community is calling for a boycott against the establishment.

I definitely support Garutay's cause calling for respect and equality not because I want to be a cross-dresser, but simply because as a citizen in a democratic country, I have the right to do whatever pleases me as long as I'm not stepping on someone else's toes. As a creation of God, Inday Garutay, just like anybody else, deserves fair treatment, acceptance and equality. There is nothing wrong with being gay. The thoughts, acts and words are what make one sinful. They say "nothing is permanent in this world except change," yet a lot of Filipinos have never changed. It's a shame, because for a country of devout Catholics, majority is still judgmental. Why can't we just mind our own business, do our own thing and be happy?

Let me share to you a speech I delivered five years ago before my fellow toastmasters at my adopted family, Queen City Toastmasters Club. This was my basic speech number two that required me to speak with sincerity. I just want to illustrate how things have never changed with regards to gay and lesbian treatment. Imagine, this piece entitled "Of Moral and Faith" was born five years ago out of a truthful observation of how things went on around me. Yet things have remained the same, especially if we take into account Garutay's fate.

Are you moral and divine? Who are you to say I'm sinner and my world is sinful? Why do you judge me as if I'm stupid, absurd and most of all an outcast? Why? Are you God?
Toastmaster of the evening, fellow toastmasters and guests, a pleasant evening! I'm gay and I'm proud of being one. After all, we are the most unique individuals the Almighty God has ever created. I stand before you tonight not for myself in particular but for the gays in the Philippines in general, who until now are longing for acceptance and freedom. While it is true that the third sex is now beginning to gain favorable support and open mindedness of the people in the country, still a vast majority of Filipinos remain old fashioned and judgmental. Gays are often branded as lustful, insolent and happy go lucky creatures that have nothing to talk about but men and the man we screwed up the previous night. You accuse us of misbehavior, but do you know that it is the way you treat us that makes us wild and vulgar?

Tell me I am wrong, but is it not true that when a gay who speaks and dresses like a woman rides with you in a jeepney, you laugh at him in silence and then give him an accusing look as if he is a criminal and more often than not you raise your brows in indictment? Is it not true that when you see a gay in clogs and in thick make up you shout at him to the point of cursing and calling him names? Why? Confucius even once said, "Don't do unto others what you don't want others do unto you." Why are you like that? Have you forgotten that if you have the right to exist in this wonderful world, so are we? If you have the freedom of expression, we are also entitled to it. We inhale the same air you breathe, sip the same water you drink and eat the same kind of food you digest. In short we are also humans, with a mind and heart similar to yours. Then why are you indifferent to our sector?

Enough of hypocrisy! This is a world of sinners not saints. If we deviated from the norms of the society where we belong, then what about those fathers with extra marital affairs with their executive secretaries and co-workers? How about those priests of the Roman Catholic Church who go out with guest relation officers and worse, have children with various women? And what about those mothers who are entangled in lustful affairs with their family drivers? What about those socialites and matrons who are playing fire with dance instructors and call boys? 'Let he who is sinless cast the first stone.' Common, why don't we just mind our own business and concentrate on how to achieve salvation come judgment day?

I can still remember the answers given by seminarian respondents to our college thesis regarding pornographic materials in the Internet. When asked whether pornography is moral or immoral, majority of them said it is amoral-meaning it all depends on what you do and think while watching these obscene materials. But if you just view it as it is-merely pictures-then there is nothing wrong with it. Then in a similar manner, gays are also neither moral nor immoral because it all depends how they celebrate homosexuality.

Now why can't you just accept us as who we are and not what we are? I know it's not that easy and simple. But try to put yourselves in our shoes. Figure this out. What if that gay man is your brother, father or your husband whom you love and care so dearly? Will you still hesitate to accept and set him free?

Think about it! Inday Garutay's case is nothing new. For sure, a lot of gays and lesbians out there have experienced discrimination. They just don't have the guts to speak up lest they be subjected to further humiliation. The scenario that prompted Garutay to file a civil suit demanding P600,000 in damages was an ordinary one. He went to the Aruba bar with his boyfriend to meet his manager to discuss an upcoming show in Japan. After arriving ahead, Garutay went to the ladies room and when he came back he was told by a female manager to leave because the restaurant has a dress code to follow. At that time, Garutay wore a beige blouse and a pair of black lady slacks. LAGABLAB, the gay and lesbian advocacy network that was the first to denounce the incident, said the restaurant could never use its dress code in its defense because nothing is stated in there that cross dressers are not allowed in the restaurant. It only said no slippers, no sandos and sandals, no wearing of hats in any kind. It states that the management can refuse entry to those who are inappropriately dressed, mentally depraved, and incorrigibly uncool, which for LAGABLAB crusaders is another form of discrimination. But whatever happens to Garutay's case is up to the court now. Let the arms of law reach out to whoever is liable. My only hope for now is that the anti-discrimination bill, especially the one authored by Senator Revilla, will eventually be passed into law, not because I can benefit from it but rather for the good of other gays and lesbians at large who are voiceless and powerless to assert their rights and benefits. To end this piece, let me say Be Gay, Be Good and Be Proud!

* * *Catch FHM cover girl Valerie Concepcion at noon today at the Gaisano Main Foodsquare for the launching of the Gaisano Main and Countrymall's August Moon Dice Festival. Greetings: Belated happy birthday to my good friend and one of the strong pillars of the Cebu Media, multi-awarded broadcast journalist Bobby Nalzaro (August 11), happy birthday to Mr Alex Gaisano and advance happy birthday to fellow columnist, good friend and TV personality Angela Calina (August 13). React at Libutine_real88@yahoo.com. You may also view my previous columns at www.ryanmark.blogspot.com

2006-07-28T21:24:00.000-07:00

PENPOINT
By Ryan Mark
The Freeman 07/29/2006

Embracing one's destiny

I was in Tagbilaran City when our bet, Lia Andrea Ramos, competed against more than 80 beautiful women from around the globe for the elusive Miss Universe crown. While she was strutting her stuff at the fabulous Shrine Stadium in Los Angeles, California, trying to convince jurors that she had what it takes to be the successor of Miss Universe 2005 Nathalie Glebova, I was busy taking note of the answers of the 14 lovely candidates of Miss Bohol International Quest 2006 during the press presentation and swimwear competition held at the scenic Panglao Nature Island Resort. (The fairest of them all was crowned last night at the Holy Name University Gym.) In short, I missed half of my life so to speak, because I failed to watch one of the world's most prestigious beauty pageants-that is the search for Miss Universe.
Around the time I threw my first question at the Boholana beauties, who were born and raised abroad, I received the bad news of the day. "Te wala nasulod si Lia sa top 20," read the text message from Bb. Pilipinas-World Ana Maris Igpit, a Boholana herself and good friend of Lia, who is a Davaoeña. I was supposed to watch the televised pageant with Ana in Bohol, but the simultaneous press presentation prevented me from doing so, thus Anna provided the updates. And she did a good job from the moment the top 20 was chosen up to the time Miss Puerto Rico Zuleyka Mendoza Rivera was crowned as the 2006 Miss Universe. She even happily informed me that Lia was chosen Miss Photogenic, an award, which for many has no bearing at all because it was based on online voting. Whatever. At least Filipinos rallied their support, and that in a way was a positive thing because it meant that we were united in that aspect despite the present political division. Lia's award served a morale booster.

Anyway, right after the announcement of the top 20, I was flooded with text messages or shall I say inquiries to this effect, "Asa naman ang gipanghambog ni Lia nga 'I'll bring home the crown' or 'I have a gut feeling I'll be the next Miss Universe'?" How do I know when I never saw her performance during the pageant? Besides I'm not close to Lia. I met her once and briefly in Bohol last May. Nevertheless, watching her smile then and knowing that she knows how to speak in Bisaya made me like her instantly. My impression of Lia is that she's a well-bred, educated, confident and good woman. For that, I would like to defend her, using Bembol Roco's speaking line I stated above. When Ana was guest in my radio show last month (OkRyan at dyLA 909 khz, 3-4PM Monday to Friday), she told me how Lia would condition herself by facing the mirror the moment she would wake up in the morning with a greeting: "Good morning Miss Universe."

I can't blame Lia because I know how it feels to be in a pageant. It is not the actual competition that would drain your energy, but rather the preparation. As the big night approaches, you have to be strong because varied thoughts, worries and a lot of "what-ifs" would enter your mind. And you have to battle all these through positive thinking. Maybe having such a greeting every morning was Lia's way of convincing herself she can do it, not for herself but for the Filipinos counting on her at large. She actually made us a favor by trying to bring pride and honor to our country. For that she ought to be applauded. Actually when I was still young I used to greet myself before the mirror every morning with: "Good morning Ryan! Each day you are feeling better, more confident and happier." Yes, that's true. And I would like to believe it worked for me because I was able to develop a sunny disposition. I'm lively and optimistic. It's just that Lia's statement about her "gut feeling of winning" became a big deal because she is a celebrity. As for me, who cares?

But then again to be in a beauty pageant or any competition for that matter, you ought to have determination. If you don't have it, why bother joining a contest? And you must have courage and most importantly, faith in God. Why so? It is because there are things in this world that are not meant for you because of what we call "destiny." Let me share these verses to you (Matthew 20: 20-23): Then the mother of James and John come to Jesus with her sons, and she knelt down to ask a favor. Jesus said to her, "What do you want?" And she answered, "Here you have my two sons. Grant that they may sit, one at your right and one at your left, when you are already in your kingdom." Jesus said to the brothers, "You do not know what you are asking. Can you drink the cup that I am about to drink?" They answered, "We can." Jesus replied, "You will indeed drink my cup, but to sit at my right or my left is not for me to grant. That will be for those whom the father has prepared it."

What I am trying to say is that, Lia was not simply destined to be Miss Universe 2006. So let us not blame her for expressing her gut feeling beforehand, even if the remark came across as boastful and proud remark to some of us. It's not her fault simply because there are those who are destined to become what God the father has prepared for them. In this case it was Miss Puerto Rico who was meant to be. I have said this again and again, when we fail it does not mean we are not good enough, it's just that God has prepared bigger and better things for us. Let me share this with you.

Three years ago, I applied for a writing job in another publication. I wasn't taken in but I viewed it positively by telling myself it wasn't my time yet. After a year, I became an entertainment columnist for this prestigious paper, an opportunity that used to be just a dream and which I never imagined would arrive soon. Two years ago, I applied for a broadcasting stint in one of the radio stations here. I got accepted but I was to be assigned in Manila. I believed it wasn't financially compensating enough for me to survive in the capital, so I did not push through with it. Now, I fully understand why I was not taken in by the publication where I applied or why I had to say no to that broadcasting stint. God has other plans for me, indeed.

I never dreamed of becoming editor, yes never in my wildest dreams, because I don't believe I have what it takes to be one. But our kind President, Sir Miguel Belmonte, and our ever-supportive General Manager, Sir Melandro Bhoy Mendoza, offered me the job at a time I least expected it. Who am I to refuse? Who I am to question God's will? Why should I go against my destiny? At the same time, who are we to question the will of God by making an issue of the statements Lia made before the biggest pageant in her lifetime? Whatever it was that made her lost, there are no more ifs and buts, as everything can be enumerated in one sentence: She wasn't destined for the crown.

* * *Catch Lovi Poe, daughter of the late Fernando Poe Jr., at the Gaisano Main Food Square today at 7 PM and at Gaisano Country Mall parking area at 8 PM for a mini-show, as a highlight of the stores' final draw of the "Shop for Scholarship promo." See her dance and most of all, sing cuts from her debut album "The Best of My Heart." React at Libutine_real@yahoo.com or check out my blog at ryanmark.blogspot.com.

I Hate Mark Bautista

2006-06-30T05:04:00.000-07:00

PenPoint
By: Ryan Mark

Why I hate Mark Bautista

Yes, I hate “Pop Heartthrob” Mark Bautista. But let me just say, it’s in a positive way. (Ha ha ha!) Yes, I know it’s complicated. I hate him because he has this sexiness that makes me forget my morals for a moment especially when he playfully closes his eyes. He looks naïve yet a single move of his lips would tell you he is not that innocent as you might think. And when he smiles, boy he makes me forget the pains I had the last time I was in love.
Mark Baustista is definitely a hunk and the title “Pop Heartthrob” is really appropriate. Believe me because I had him as guest in my radio show OkRyan at dyLA 909 kHz last month. Though sometimes, he evades personal questions, Mark is still a joy to interview simply because he never fails to acknowledge where he comes from, and never forgets how life was like as a struggling band member back then in Cagayan de Oro City. People who remain who they are, despite fame and fortune, easily captivate me. So that’s one reason why Mark stole my heart.
Honestly, I initially disliked Mark Bautista because the first time I saw him after having been proclaimed first runner-up to Sarah Geronimo in “Star for a Night,” to me he was ugly, or to be kind—he was never charming. He was this dark skinned promdi trying to fit into a world where its denizens are all beautiful and stylish. (Pagka bisaya jud og nawong dodong!) But to quote Rosanna Roces of what she thought then of sexy star Ana Capri: “Gaganda din siya kapag may pera na siya,” Mark, as the years gone by, metamorphosed into a gorgeous, charming and confident guy who can sway any woman off her feet. There is a very big difference from the Mark Bautista now and before. A member of the ASAP Champions league, Mark is literally a heartthrob because he is in great shape—the muscles are in the right places as a result of seriously sweating it out in the gym. (I could only shout, show me some flesh Mark!) I’m sorry, but I prefer a lean body like the physiques of Piolo Pascual, Jericho Rosales and Alfred Vargas over Carlos Agassi’s and Diether Ocampo’s, so it’s not surprising why I like Mark’s trim frame, too. His singing voice and graceful body when he grinds to the music are another matter, too. I guess I just have to say that I’m in love with Mark Bautista!
Yes, it’s true SM Cinema 2, where Mark’s concert was held last Saturday night, was half-full. But I would say those who failed to watch it missed a great performance from a promising all-around performer. Mark definitely made his mark that night as he sang and danced that left the audience cheering for more. I simply love the way he shook his butt. Even Mark’s hosting ability has improved a lot, too. He delivered ad-libs and punchlines with great timing. Mark is a combination of Gary V. and Martin Nievera in terms of delivering a punchline or simply teasing and flirting with the audience members or with the cameras, but when he belts out a song, he is simply Mark Bautista. He could sing better than Erik Santos, whose only “moment” was the “Star in a Million” grand finals a couple of years ago. He could also be Christian Bautista’s main threat in the future, not just in matters of the heart involving Rachelle Ann Go, but also career-wise. Why so? Because Christian is only good at singing Josh Groban and Andrea Boccelli type of songs, while Mark has had exposure to various genres, thanks to his “live band days.” Among the male champions, it’s Jed Madela for me who is on top, but let us not include him because he is of world-class caliber. However given more time, Mark could very well become the music industry’s finest. Watch out!
So Mark’s concert last Saturday was very good. There were only two setbacks. First was that it started two hours late (I checked my watch it was already 9pm when Jollibee’s mascot emerged from backstage and rendered an entertaining dance number.) Mark finally showed up at 9:05, singing “Baliw,” followed by “How Did You Know.” Both songs are part of his “Dream On” expanded album. The other setback occurred during the part when Mark performed a Visayan song (unfamiliar to me); he was getting to know three girls he picked from the crowd who were asked to join him onstage. This portion was dragging and no longer amusing. After that, he did two more songs and gave the stage to Roy Empleo—“SNG Game Na” host and I must say, very promising performer.
Roy appeared nervous, conscious and looked stiff onstage at first belting out Josh Groban’s “You Raise Me Up.” He admitted that it was his first time to be part of a big concert. He, however, regained his confidence when he did Martin Nievera’s “The Promise,” and it was at this point when the audience stopped and focused on Roy. He was then communicating with the crowd through gestures and facial expressions. For his finale, he did another Martin song, “This is the Moment”—and gosh! What a splendid performance. That night proved to be Roy’s moment to be noticed. I haven’t watched his game show on ABS-CBN Cebu yet, but Roy is a talent to watch out for in the local music scene.
As Roy exited, Mark was back with two more songs—“Lonely No More” and “End By Now,” both of which sent the audience cheering wildly in their seats. Then it was time to call his second guest, Nikki Bacolod, the “Star in a Million” runner-up to Jerome Sala. (By the way, their batch was the lousiest in the history of “Star in a Million” as far as performance and prominence are concerned.) When I say “lousiest,” what then would you expect? A boring and nonsensical performance. This was evident in Nikki who only kept on giggling on stage. Yes, she can sing. In fact, she has an album. But as a singer, voice quality is not enough. One should be able to connect well with the crowd, something that Mark has successfully learned through the years. Perhaps some of you will reason that Nikki is just a teenager, which was why she was still hesitant to interact with the crowd. So to the handlers of Nikki, teach her well, enroll her in a personality development course, because at the moment, she has a lot of learning to do, especially in terms of communication skills.
After Nikki departed the stage, Mark did a medley of love songs, some of which were danceable. According to Mark, the songs reminded him of his band days in CDO. Fittingly, the concert ended with him singing “End by Now,” which is also part of his expanded album. Speaking of the song, I could still remember the handsome Mark telling me he’s not meant for Rachelle Ann who chose Christian over him during the flirty yet jolly interview I did with him on OkRyan.
Now ask me again: do I still hate the Pop Heartthrob? Yes because I can’t help but shout, I love you Mark!, because he’s becoming better and better in his performances.
Thank you to McMedia Advertising for bringing Mark to Cebu and congratulations for a job well done!
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I’ve watched two episodes of GMA-7 Cebu’s Sunday variety show “Oi” recently and was mesmerized by Jill, the chinita-looking girl who was part of “Singgit Cebu barkada,” before. Wow, she is more charming now and more graceful in her dance numbers. And her hosting ability has improved a lot—the girl is very engaging and pleasing to watch onscreen. I don’t know her personally, but I tell you, if I have my way I would make her a regular host to boost the struggling ratings of “Oi.”
***Catch Sandara Park later at 7PM at Gaisano Main and 8PM at Gaisano Countrymall for the back to school promo of the respective stores. React at Libutine_real88@yahoo.com or visit ryanmark.blogspot.com.

2006-06-22T04:32:00.000-07:00

Penpoint
By: Ryan Mark

Bianca Gonzales proves first impressions wrong

I’m always honest and transparent so I would not deny that the first time I saw Bianca Gonzales inside the “Bahay ni Kuya” during the Pinoy Big Brother Celebrity Edition, I instantly disliked her. That was because I felt then that she was a threat to our very own Angela Calina. Bianca was being hyped up. Can you blame me at all?
Angela is a good friend of mine, aside from the fact that I’m all for promoting local talents. I believe that if only given the same breaks Manila artists are enjoying, we would come out the best in the country.
It was only when Angela made a voluntary exit for domestic reasons that my displeasure at Bianca mellowed. And then, she got entangled with Zanjoe Marudo. I asked myself, what kind of girl was Bianca? I thought she was wholesome, so why was she acting that way? We also knew that direk Lino Cayetano, her boyfriend for a year now, was waiting for her outside the house and must have been hurting because of her extra closeness to Zanjoe. So my antagonistic feelings toward her remained.
But after meeting her in person last week at Table7 resto bar, my first impressions quickly vanished. She was in town for the live broadcast of “Y Speak,” the show on Studio 23 that made her a favorite among the youth because of her wit and charm. And so there I was observing her actions and listening to her answers, quickly weighing in whether I should believe her or not.
Bianca has a sunny disposition; she talks well and her smile is genuine. During the first 30 minutes of the presscon, I came to the realization that Bianca is real, unpretentious, honest and accommodating. What I admired about her so much was her being approachable. Not a single question was turned down or rejected, and I never heard a “no comment” even though I felt I was already being pushy with some of my questions. She was honest to admit that her extra closeness with Zanjoe then was, indeed, a mistake because it hurt the people close to her. But she said it proved something: she is just human capable of making mistakes.
So it’s really true: first impressions don’t last. That I like her sincerity and charm now is something I’m sure of. Truth is, I asked for a picture with her after the interview, something I had not done with Sam Milby, Jericho Rosales and Piolo Pascual. Well, I have always believed that celebrities are humans like me and that majority of them are just wearing masks, so why waste time asking for their autograph or pictures or going gaga over them? Forgive me, but I’m hard to please. I hate celebrities who are fond of saying “no comment” or playing safe with their answers.
No wonder the likes of Angelica Panganiban, Alessandra de Rossi, Cindy Kurleto and Sunshine Dizon never fail to impress me with their boldness and their fearless, no-nonsense answers. Maybe it’s because of my orientation in hardcore journalism where the rule is always “call a spade a spade.” I have no tolerance for pretentious celebrities and those who are followers of what I call “scriptwriting in showbiz.”

Anyhow, let’s see if you like Bianca’s answers during my brief interview.

PenPoint: How are things between you and Zanjoe? Do you still communicate with him?
Bianca: We’re okay. When we see each other we are very civil, we say hi to each other. There are times na like yung Big Night nagkita po kami, we are very civil pero I think for the both of us we both know na parang alam niya na he has to give me space because I’m fixing things with Lino at the same time I have to give him space kasi gusto din niyang gawin ang lahat na gusto niyang gawin whether career or lovelife, ganyan. So parang mutual respect in the sense na we have to give each other space.

PenPoint: What do you feel for Zanjoe now?
Bianca: Parang I keep on saying, never kang magde-deny what you feel for him inside the house. Now I know that we’re just friends talaga, na parang we both have our own lives that we are trying to both fix right now.

PenPoint: After what happened inside the house, witnessed nationwide if not worldwide, how’s your relationship with direk Lino now?
Bianca: It’s serious because parang ito na siguro ang pinaka una at pinaka malaking trial na napagdaanan namin as a couple. We just turned one year together officially this month. And trivia, he officially asked me dito po sa Cebu in Plantation Bay. (Note: She later implied that her relationship has not been totally fixed and turns somewhat shaky—she rates things 6 in a scale of 10—especially if the incident would be remembered).

PenPoint: Marriage plans?
Bianca: Ay naku, mate-tense po ang nanay ko sa mga wedding-wedding. So yon po. I think na kung mayroong naturo yung house sa amin as a couple is that bata pa po kami. We should not rush things since there so many things to realize and we have to grow as individuals. And I think I’m too young. Lino is 28 and I’m 23.

PenPoint: What for you was the worst criticism said against you after coming out of PBB that really made you cry?
Bianca: Wow! I think lahat pantay. Ang pinaka iniyakan ko lang was parang hindi ko rin naintindihan why that happened to me, hindi ko rin naintindihan how it happened.

PenPoint: Bianca now, when you are alone or before you sleep at night, what do you tell yourself?
Bianca: Oh wow! Ay grabe only one thing- si Lord na ang bahala sa akin. We do things to plan our lives or to fix our lives pero in the end si Lord talaga ang bahala sa atin. And I just trust na lahat tayo, ako aalagaan tayo at hindi tayo ipapahamak.

PenPoint: I hope you don’t mind but critics are saying you have an ugly face and that it’s not fit for television and that you have no sense of fashion. How do you feel about these comments, which, for me, are already below the belt?
Bianca: I definitely take the criticisms into consideration. Kasi kung hindi ako nasa TV, honestly I am just a normal teenager na madaming linggo bago ako magpalaba ng jeans, hindi ako mahilig magplapantsa, [I don’t care] whether yung suot kong t-shirt may matsa. Pero I try to fix myself up, feeling ko nag-aayos ako pero feeling ng ibang tao hindi. So I’ll just keep on trying to do better everytime. I take it naman as constructive criticism.

PenPoint: Bianca, my personal observation of you is that you’re so mabait, humble and so candid. And I could sense that you are a positive thinker. What angers you, what makes you cry?
Bianca: I am. I’m such a positive person talaga kaya napaka ironic talaga na nangyari yon sa akin sa house. What makes me cry is kapa, more than pag-ma hurt ako but ma-hurt yong mga mahal ko sa buhay. What angers me? Hindi rin po for me but when people are mean to others. I don’t know, parang when people are mean to my family or people I love yon po parang di ko maintindihan kung bakit. Kasi I think if it’s sa’yo parang feeling ko dahil ako ang gumagawa nun, I deserve this. Pero when if it’s other people iba na yun.

PenPoint: Lastly, what advice did Kuya Boy Abunda, your manager, give you?
Bianca: Medyo conflict of interest kasi in the first place siya yong nang-iintriga. Siya yong mang-iintriga but at the same time kailangan niya akong alagaan. His advice is just basically, answer the truth parang that’s the best naman talaga you can give to people. Kasi if you tell the truth, it’s up to them kung pakinggan nila or maiintindihan nila. And he always says na kung alam mo na hindi totoo you have nothing to be afraid of.

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Check out Kim Chiu and all the other Pinoy Big Brother Teen Housemates tomorrow at the Ayala Center Lagoon for the ASAP Homecoming of the latest Cebuana who made us proud in national entertainment scene once again.

GMA-7's "Oi", going nowhere

2006-06-12T06:14:00.000-07:00

PenPoint
By: Ryan Mark

Oi! What happened, Oi?

It is now more than six months since GMA-7 Cebu’s Sunday late-morning show “Oi” made its premiere. It was October last year when the Cebuano viewers had its first glimpse of “Oi” and its five hosts then – Marti, Recca, Eguia, Arriane and Yuri. From the looks of its debut, it seemed that ABS-CBN’s “Jud Morning” faced a formidable competitor – or so many thought.
After its pilot episode, Cebu press raved about “Oi,” saying it was dynamic, interactive, and stylish, leveling to the standards of GMA-7 Manila’s “SOP.” In fact, creative people from Manila were sent here to see to it that everything would be fine in terms of conceptualizing, editing, and directing. Yet, after the good reviews and the gargantuan predictions, “Oi” failed to sustain the momentum and match expectations. In short, the show has become a flop!
It’s only now that I’ll admit this: from the beginning, I had doubted the possibility of “Oi” toppling “Jud Morning.” But since I’m very regionalistic – I’ve always loved and hoped for local talents to shine – I played deaf and blind to the negative comments about “Oi.” I was deeply hoping that the show would eventually cope up and outdo its pilot episode. But every Sunday, the show deteriorates. I think its cause is the concept itself. It’s not clear on what it wants to project or what it wants to achieve. It is literally a variety show. Like chopsuey, it is jumbled and has no direction.
Since the start, the concept of “Oi” has never really been made clear. All that has been said before was that it was going to be an interactive program. They also said that it would expose their hosts to tedious challenges including getting dirty and stressed just to show that though they’re pretty and charming, they still can do what the common tao does. That was supposedly their way of getting closer to the “masa” viewers. That was why on its pilot episode, Eguia and special guest, Cebuana rising star Isabel Oli, were brought to the crowded Carbon market to do shopping. (Well… as if it’s really that challenging to shop there. Many market-goers actually, including I, find joy in haggling over prices.)
In succeeding episodes, there was Marti (who only stayed briefly and left soon after for the US), who tried his hand on pig-roasting as he joined the lechon festival in Talisay, then there was Eguia again in that flop interview with Dennis Trillo and Alfred Vargas. I say flop because she either had the wrong questions or threw them at the wrong time. I also got to watch a segment wherein Arianne interviewed a certain man at the Fuente skywalk who earns a living by sketching people for a fee. If I’m not mistaken it was a Christmas special, but I have to say it was boring because it was obvious that she was just reading questions from a cue card and relying on the instructions of the segment producer.
The better segment during the Christmas special was the interview with the oldest firecracker maker in Lapu-Lapu City done by Marti. He also did a feature on the beauty and risk of sporting a tattoo. Still, even if I wasn’t furnished a copy of that episode’s rating, I’m pretty sure it was way behind “Jud Morning” with its sentimental gift-giving segments to the children in Bohol, who survived the food poisoning incident, as well as the feeding of sidewalk dwellers along Manalili. That touching episode left me crying afterwards.
I also got to see that episode featuring the “Kalapukan Festival” done somewhere in Minglanilla with gays in skimpy attire having a scuffle amid knee-deep mud. Instead of being entertained, I was slighted because members of the third sex were made laughing-stock again. Okay, given the participants did it at their own will, still it was a form of exploitation by taking advantage of the dire financial needs of those gays. It was degrading.
Recently, I caught another segment that showed gays being pelted with iced water packs – the one who wasn’t hit became the winner – another form of disrespect to the third sex. Why not simply show the beautiful side of gays – i.e. how they shine and succeed despite the odds and discrimination against them? Why do gays have to be the laughing stock if not the punching bag in these segments?
We also recently saw the entry of another segment, “Pop Sensation Showdown,” hosted by world-class performer Rizza Navales. And more recently, there was a pre-Holy Week presentation with Yuri, Recca and Amon trying a hand in the drama department through a telesine entitled “Kinabuhi,” a story of two prodigal children and another one who was a closet gay. I would say they should not have ventured into it at all because the acting was so dry. I hardly saw promise in any of them. That they are hosts and not thespians could, however, be use an excuse. But then, they could have tapped real local acting talents to star in that telesine. As for the “Pop Showdown,” I admit it’s a very good concept. I like it because it promotes and give exposure to local talents. But is one hour enough?
Last month, I learned that the irritating Eguia and boring Arianne (but boy was she very captivating parading in an elegant bridal gown designed by Philip Rodriguez in a fashion show last April 5 at the Mandaue City heritage garden) were already out as hosts, leaving behind Rizza, Yuri, Recca and Amon. Now, my question is did these hosts undergo workshop already, as what was announced before, to hone their potentials? It was even said that they would be trained in Manila so that they too would be ready to take on possible hosting exposures in either “SOP” or showbiz-oriented programs like “S Files” and “Startalk.” Was this a “broken promise” because they have not improved at all? Their voices are lively but their expressions are bland. Try watching “Oi” and you will see what I mean. Which reminds me of a movie director-friend who once told me “shouting or raising one’s voice while hosting does not manifest liveliness and energy at all. Facial expression and speaking voice should go together.” Therefore, a hosting workshop would be a big boost for the “Oi” gang!
After all is said, my humble suggestion is that it’s about time its producers should evaluate the show and come to a decision: should they let go of it and come up with another one or doubly work on its improvement? Should they choose to start anew, they should get hosts who have a clearer grasp of the dynamics of local entertainment, plus are mature to handle interviews, etcetera. Better yet, let the selection of hosts be a reality-based search so they can develop a following like in the case of Ethel Booba and Phoemela Baranda in “Extra Challenge” before. Let the viewers decide on whom they want to see onscreen. This way we are assured that the viewers themselves think that the host/s has/have more to offer than good looks. Because gone are the days where a pretty face is enough passport to showbiz. Talent now comes first what with the wonders of cosmetic surgery at our disposal. Still, even if looks have more bearing, the format of the show should be identified – will it be a talk show, a game show, a sports-oriented show, a lifestyle show or a singing contest? It should have an identity.
Let’s face it: “Oi” is an expensive experiment that failed. Time to move on folks, or you will eventually lose your audience.

Keanna's glory

2006-06-12T06:11:00.000-07:00

PenPoint
By: Ryan Mark

Destiny’s hand in Keanna’s big win

Gone are the days when she had to settle for a P15,000 talent fee for an out-of-town show just to bring food on the table. For Keanna Reeves is now a big winner, not to mention a millionaire, and with that comes the promise of a brighter future ahead for her career and family. In addition to her big win in ABS-CBN’s Pinoy Big Brother Celebrity Edition, the influential and most sought-after talent manager Boy Abunda will now direct the course of her career in showbizlandia.
Still, the biggest reward that Keanna bagged is the respect that the general public had accorded her. From being a so-so sexy starlet, she could now rightfully claim of being reborn with a positive image – a responsible mother and a real and transparent person well-loved by many Filipinos. Keanna won because she became the epitome of someone who has remained true to herself (“nagpapakatotoo”).
I believe that she was also destined to win the PBB Celeb Edition. Remember the report that Keanna was only a second choice next to Rosanna Roces? When Osang backed out allegedly because she found the P10,000 weekly talent fee small, Keanna became the replacement, joining the 14 celebrities of different traits and professions who entered Kuya’s house last February 5. Remember how she was initially “pasaway” by refusing to follow Kuya’s orders and missing several group activities? As expected, she was among the first three, along with Rico and Rudy, nominated for eviction. But fate has other plans for her, and so came the voluntary exit of our very own Angela Calina that the eviction was suspended for a week. Then came Keanna’s confrontation with Mitch over the latter’s hunger for attention. That I can say was the first shining moment of Keanna. Her guts to spill out her true feelings towards Mitch got televiewers hooked. That sent a signal that one shouldn’t mess with her. Most of my colleagues in the newsroom were all praises for Keanna the following day. Imagine, all the other housemates were beginning to feel suffocated with Mitch’s behavior, but it was only Keanna who had the courage to voice it out.
And then came the scene in the confession room where a blindfolded Keanna got to embrace her children for 100 seconds. Later on, when her kids left, Keanna tearfully confessed on national TV that the reason she didn’t bring her children with her to the big city was because she didn’t want them to suffer the same hardships she went through while trying her luck in imperial Manila. “Ayaw ko na maranasan ninyo ang hirap na pinagdaanan ko. Gusto ko na kung magkasama tayo maibili ko kayo ng gusto ninyo at maipasyal ko kayo kahit saan.” From thereon, Keanna’s star shone brighter. In the eyes of the public, she became a responsible mother – very different from the image she projected before she joined PBB.
Finally, came Rustom’s admission. Of course, rumors that he was gay surfaced years ago, but to finally admit it before the whole world was a big deal because it required a lot of courage. At the same time, Keanna earned the admiration of many because she was the one who drew out the confession. For sure, she had proven to Rustom that she deserves his trust and confidence, prompting him to open up to her. That episode solidified Keanna’s chances at victory, clearly becoming the strongest housemate to beat.
Actually, I already saw Keanna’s victory coming even before PBB ended. In my mind, ABS-CBN could turn Keanna into a legitimate actress by giving her the right break. With the right push, she could become the next Osang. But I must admit too that when the contest was ongoing, my hopes of Keanna bagging the title would either rise or drop. That was because I saw how Bianca Gonzales was given all the hype inside the house. It was apparent that ABS-CBN was banking on Bianca to win because the cameras were focused on her most of the time – from the moment she wakes up in the morning, to the time she washes her face and brushes her teeth. Bianca was very visible. Adding insult to injury was PBB host Mariel Rodriguez’s biased comments – “ang ganda talaga ni Bianca,” or “ang talino talaga ni Bianca.” Wasn’t that already positioning Bianca for the win? Mariel, as a host, should have been objective and should have kept her comments to herself because this was a contest, where everybody should enjoy fair treatment and equal exposure, and not some showbiz-oriented talk show, where you’re free to express your personal opinions.
Anyhow, it was after the Big Four was chosen that I was finally convinced Keanna was in for the top prize. Why? Among the four, Keanna was the most bankable – plus the comic that she is, she was a joy to watch. Zanjoe has not proven anything inside the house, Bianca, who started great, became a turn-off with her extraordinary closeness with Zanjoe (there were even reports that they have actually kissed). She came out the bad girl because it was well publicized that she had a boyfriend, in the person of Lino Cayetano, who was waiting for her outside the house. While John underwent painful waxing just to see his loved ones, still it was not enough. And why did he enter the house if he could not bear the loneliness of being away from his family? The waxing challenge was, for me, a favor in disguise.
Another reason why Keanna had to win was because she was the only one who really was in dire need. Zanjoe, Bianca and John appeared to have come from well-to-do families. The common tao found it hard to relate to them, no wonder in the final counting, more than 50% of the votes went in favor of Keanna.
As I see it, ultimately, Keanna won because she symbolizes the true meaning of a “Kapamilya.” Her victory could be used in ABS-CBN’s campaign to prove the network is a real Kapamilya. Keanna was once lost, was a “sinner,” yet destiny granted her another opportunity at proving her worth. As she moves onto a renewed life, where else should she go back to but to the folds of her family? And when that happens her ABS-CBN family would be there to accept her with open arms and guide her so that she’d be able to pick up the pieces of broken dreams, and not be lost again. She, indeed, has a story to tell – of the bouts of many Filipinos against the cruelties of everyday life. It’s not hard to package her, indeed.
Keanna is definitely a role model in her own right. Yes, she was an escort girl, a woman who used to sell herself just to survive. But look at where she’s now? Her message is clear and simple, there is hope for those who repent from their sins and strive to change. Most of all, everything is possible if we believe in the power of God, and that we do our share to make that change happen. But first, we’ve got to have a dream and a game plan like Keanna.
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I was invited to screen the applicants for Miss Mandaue 2006 last Sunday at the Waterfront Hotel Lahug along with Bb. Pilipinas World Anna Maris Igpit, Miss Cebu Stephanie Señeres, awarded choreographers Junjet Primor and Doy Aradaza, Atty. Elias Espinoza, Madam Mariz Araneta and friends Roger Serna and Niza Mariñas. It was an enjoyable task but tiring as well as there were 51 applicants. Though many of them are promising, only 20 would be taken in for the chance to compete for the title. We will get to know the official candidates after they are formally presented to the press in the days to come. Anyhow, allow me to share to you Anna’s thank you card, which she personally handed to me last Sunday:
Ryan Mark,
Just wanted to give this simple yet very meaningful card as a way of showing my gratitude for all the support and prayers you gave me. Though we’re not that close, you have written good things about me eversince my Ms. Talisay days (I even have the articles pa…hehe). Thank you so much for the never-ending support. Your articles encouraged and inspired me to believe in myself and not be afraid to reach my dreams. Thank you once again and you will always be part of my victory. God bless you always! Keep up the good work and continue to encourage and inspire people.
This gesture flattered me so much because after almost two years of being a columnist it’s the first time that a celebrity went out of her way just to give me a thank you card. Grabe, I’m gonna cry na…
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Victorious Anna Maris Igpit

2006-06-12T06:08:00.000-07:00

PenPoint
By: Ryan Mark

Believing in Anna

I felt like a beauty queen—again. (Ha ha ha) That was when Anna Maris Igpit, pride of Bohol and Cebu’s strongest bet to the most prestigious pageant in the country was crowned Bb. Pilipinas-World at the Araneta Coliseum Saturday night. It was as if I was also crowned because I have always believed in Anna, while others doubted her chances of making it to the top three as the pageant approached. I’ve always seen so much promise in Anna ever since I first met her in October 2004 when I had the privilege to be part of the group who picked her as “Darling of the Press” during the search for Miss Talisay City that year. I could not forget her because she was the only one who gave a convincing answer to my question as to their stand on the then growing rift between the cities of Cebu and Talisay over a contested portion of the South Reclamation Project. I could no longer quote her reply verbatim but she said something to the effect of seeking the assistance of government agencies to determine who really owns the contested portion. With that answer, I predicted she would win the pageant—and she successfully did.
There’s something distinct in Anna’s looks. Yes, she is not beautiful if our standard of beauty is mestiza. But her smile and sunny disposition would hook your attention and I was really banking on these assets of hers when she was competing in the Bb. Pilipinas. When some of my friends commented that she isn’t beautiful I never disagreed, however, I would always add that she’s very charming. Every inch a Filipina, from looks to complexion, Anna is really fit for international pageants. She’d make a good representative of the oriental charm. With that, hopefully, she would stand out in Poland this December.
My friendship with Anna is actually informal because I only met her twice—first during that Miss Talisay presscon and second was when she was crowned Miss Mandaue last May. Since those were merely ambush and not sit-down interviews where there’s instant bonding, I can’t blame her if she does not remember me by face. But despite that, we seem to be close friends already even if our correspondence is only through email and text. It helps that we have the same communication network (unlimited text you know) and that her agent, Chicoy Tomol of the Models Association of Cebu (M.A.C.) is my friend. But whatever means I’ve kept in touch with Anna, it only shows how approachable and accommodating she is. There was not a time when she didn’t reply to my text messages, maybe sometimes delayed as she was busy with rehearsals. But she has always been there, not missing any opportunity to say thank you when I write about her.
These gestures (thanking and texting back) are a big deal to me as a writer because as what I have said before these would serve as feedback—whether positive or negative—to a favor done. You see there was this Cebuana beauty titleholder who never thanked me and who snubbed a FREEMAN writer who wanted to interview her. But I know our paths would cross when she would eventually join Bb. Pilipinas next year under a new agent. Anyway, I am just pointing out how much I value someone who is grateful, because in the case of this beauty titleholder, chances are I might not support her next year because of her attitude. Well, I am not saying that without publicity this Cebuana titleholder will not win. But remember, God said that “When two or more gather together in my name I am with them.” So it’s really different and more powerful when lots of people pray for your success.
Anyway, Anna really heard mass last Sunday at the Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church in Cubao, but in the afternoon because according to her she was still sleepy in the morning. But the important thing is she made true to her answer that the first thing she would do should she win that pageant night was to visit the church to thank God for the blessings and to ask for guidance for the biggest and toughest battle that has yet to come, which is the Miss World competition.
And when she comes home next week, Anna is expected to visit Basilica del Santo Niño as she vowed to herself. “Actually daghan ko i-visit, adto ko Redemptorist, Carmelite and Poor Claire in Liloan. Those were my praying venues,” she told me when I texted her last Thursday afternoon.
It was also last Thursday that Anna elaborated on what she told me days earlier that she was keeping her optimism high because she had felt there was favoritism while the pageant was nearing. Without mentioning names, she revealed that “every TV guesting naa juy usa ka girl pirmi ipa-front. Then pirmi pa storyaon sa TV unya usahay unahon jud og make-up. But balewala nalang pod nako, positive thinking lang jud ko.” Well, I too noticed that in every TV guesting, I hardly had a glimpse of Anna but I told myself that it was expected because as in the past, she’d like to play the dark horse. “Yeah, mao sad na advice ni Karla (Queen of Asia Oceania Karla Bautista) ug sa mga make-up artists nga sa pageant na jud palugwa.”
Anna was so confident during the pageant night, painting a picture of someone having fun onstage and enjoying every moment of it. That was because by Friday night, she already conditioned herself that if one of the three crowns was really for her, then God will make it happen. But it helped a lot too that she trained under Rodgil Flores, the one behind the success of past winners Maricar Balagtas, Karen Loren Agustin, Carlene Aguilar, Melanie Ediza, Precious Lara Quigaman and Karla, to name a few. “It was the best training that I went through jud. Though I’ve joined a lot of pageants before, daghan pa diay kog dapat i-improve that’s why lahi ra jud ko pag-pageant. They trained me in doing the catwalk and in responding to the Q&A.”
Honestly, watching her that night I could not help but say a prayer for her from time to time, as I really liked her to win mainly because I find her a very nice person. It was past 11pm when Chicoy texted me that Anna won and was also declared Best in Gown that I managed to relax. I love to see “promdis” making it big in the capital. Forgive me for being regionalistic but for me, people from outside of Manila could excel given equal exposure and chance. So Anna’s victory is like mine, too.
For someone who started joining pageants only two years ago and winning almost in all, Anna remains humble and prayerful which could be why she is so blessed. While others believed her answer during the final round was cliché, I applaud her because she really knows to give credit to where it is due. I agree with her when she told me last Sunday that her answer was the most fitting statement that she could think of and the best one at that. I’ve said this in a past column and I’ll say this again—without God we are nothing. So it is just most appropriate to glorify God either in times of failure or success, because everything happens for a reason.
Now with a crown on her head and a glamorous beauty title to her name, I trust Anna to remain grounded because humility is what makes one a true beauty. I’m also confident that she would still be the same endearing Anna I know because when I told her not to develop star complex and to be always real, she replied, “Yes I will always remember that. Daghan na kaayo kog tawo nga na-encounter nga ingon ana and I don’t want to be like them because I don’t wanna lose my friends.”

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Gosh, another “promdi” is in danger. I’m referring to Keanna Reeves who is being nominated for eviction tonight in ABS-CBN’s Pinoy Big Brother Celebrity Edition. Let us save her because without Keanna, the house would turn dull and colorless because her comments never fail to make one smile. And I must say she’s real and transparent and who doesn’t mind whether the cameras are on her or not. So it’s never too late, text BB Keanna then send to 2331 for Globe, Sun Cellular subscribers and 231 for Smart and Talk N’ Text. Let’s send Roxie Barcelo home instead for becoming irritating with her lies and “crybaby” drama.
Tomorrow night at the Marikina Sports Complex would also be the final night of GMA-7’s StarStruck Nationwide Invasion. Catch the delayed telecast at the Kapuso network after Da De Di Do Du. I’m rooting for Iwa Motto and Marky Cielo, let’s see if they would be lucky enough to become the Ultimate Survivors.
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Eventful Friday

2006-06-12T06:06:00.000-07:00

PenPoint
By: Ryan Mark

A Friday to Remember with AJ and Ana

I met the fast-rising ABS-CBN star, AJ (Angel James) Dee III in Balamban last Friday where he was celebrity guest for Gaisano Balamban and Countrymall’s A Million Thanks Family Car raffle draw. He was expected to arrive here as early as 9am that day but since PGMA had an unannounced visit to a certain establishment in Manila, some streets there had to be closed to motorists, so much so AJ’s trip to the airport and arrival here were delayed. As soon as he was introduced to us at the airport, AJ appealed unendingly for our understanding. And because he flashed a sweet smile with eyes twinkling, I immediately told him it was just fine.
AJ, at a closer look, is really oozing with sex appeal. He exudes so much machismo with his to-die-for figure (well, he wasn’t first runner-up in two model searches two years ago for nothing). AJ, who comes from an affluent Chinese family in Naga City, is very refined in his manners, soft-spoken and shy. The eldest in a brood of four (three boys and an adopted girl as their youngest), AJ was discovered when he escorted a Ms Bicolandia candidate in 2004 and was immediately lured to try his luck in the big city. A graduate of Business Management at the Ateneo de Naga two years ago, he grabbed the opportunity only after he finished schooling.
Arriving in Manila sometime in 2004, AJ was immediately welcomed into the portals of ABS Style talent agency that immediately fielded him to the Mossimo Model Search and Bikini Open Competition that year wherein he landed first runner-up in both. Next in line was ABS-CBN’s TV Idols search last year, where he placed first runner-up again, thus earning a slot in Star Magic. Co-managed by TV host Boy Abunda’s Backroom Artists, AJ got the chance to co-host with Anne Curtis and Pokwang in the Wanna Buzz segment of the showbiz-oriented program “The Buzz.” He became very visible in TV later and secured a “masa” appeal when he became part of “Vietnam Rose” that concluded recently in the Kapamilya’s primetime block. For now, while he awaits new projects, AJ is occupied with guestings, as well as corporate and provincial shows.
For a virtual newcomer to be managed by Boy Abunda, AJ must have something that caught the latter’s attention. Therefore, he must double his efforts to become a legitimate versatile performer because judging from his performance at the Balamban Sports Complex he definitely still has a lot of proving to do. The venue was filled to the maximum comprised mostly by teenagers who didn’t care standing just so to get a glimpse of AJ. He rendered two songs, including Orange & Lemon’s “Pinoy Ako.” He can sing, yes, but he lacked stage presence. And he was shocked when an aggressive girl hugged him and then grinded before him when they danced together onstage. Therefore I say AJ still has to put a lot of energy and enthusiasm into his performance.
The good thing about AJ though is that he’s open-minded. On our way back to the city, I told him he has to give it his best when he performs because that lack of vigor might make people think that he is either hiding something or he’s a plain snub. AJ flashed his sweet smile once again before admitting that he is learning to be comfortable and confident in public, as he was never used to be the focus of attention. He said he is just shy, but not a snub let alone a pretender. According to him he is very family-oriented and a homebody as he was used to just interact with relatives. In fact, it’s good to know that unlike many models who are busy bar-hopping, AJ would rather stay at home when he has no taping or guesting. And he goes to ABS-CBN only when he is needed there “para iwas intriga.” But AJ, a theater actor back in his college days, really loves what he’s doing.
AJ is loveless. He had a girlfriend who’s also from Naga City but they agreed to call it quits because she wanted to prioritize her medical studies. But they still have constant communication so who knows they would still end up with each other at the right time. He used to be attracted to Anne Curtis, but has developed into fondness, as he became good friends with Anne and her boyfriend Paolo Araneta because they used to talk every Sunday in between tapings for Wanna Buzz. He likes Anne because she is “sweet, makulit and simple—walang ka arte-arte.” But for now he is poised to find his place in showbiz as a drama actor while pursuing hosting at the same time. What do I say? Good luck AJ, break a leg!
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Friday night had me dining with Bb. Pilipinas World Anna Maris Igpit at the Laguna Garden Cafe along with some members of the Models Association of Cebu (M.A.C.). In attendance were Queen of Asia Oceania Karla Bautista, Anna’s model-boyfriend Harold Dee, fellow models Elvira Stehr (who is competing for Supermodel of the World Philippines), Fern Mediquillo and Cassidy Shun (competing for Best Model Philippines), Stephan Urtizberea (for BodyShots Search Philippines) and Elite Model Charity Lagahid. Some members of Clothes for life were there too such as Edwin Ao, Protacio, Marichu Tan and Wendell Quisido. Talk show icon and good friend Jude “Morning” Bacalso, who came all the way from Dumaguete City, as well as photojournalist Gerard Pareja dropped by. Managing head for Norkis Group of Companies, Mr. Adolito Flores and wife joined in that intimate victory party thrown by MAC. manager Chicoy Tomol.
Because I came in late since I had a light meal with Mommy Rose Gaisano at the Lighthouse Restaurant in Countrymall first, I just made “beso” with Anna when I got there, followed by a “kumustahan portion” as I told her how regal and gorgeous she looked in her floral summer dress. Of course, the huge crown on her head and the sash made her appear every inch a beauty queen. So after a brief talk with Anna wherein she related her worry during the pageant night wherein she did her own make-up for the first time, I left Anna to the company of her other guests as I was guided by Chicoy to a table occupied by the designers.
Anyhow, a reliable source told me the other day that the panel of judges reportedly chose Anna for the Bb. Pilipinas Universe title, and that Davao’s bet Lia Andrea Ramos was actually chosen for the Bb. Pilipinas World, but judges had to deliberate again and interchange the titles due to age requirements in the international pageants. You see Lia is already 25 years old and Miss World organizers are reportedly particular with age, preferring candidates as young as 18 years old for the crown. My source added that candidate no. 13, Marie Ann Umali (the Francine Prieto look-alike who replied “love is indescribable because love is it” to the question of actress Iza Calzado), was supposedly eyed for the Bb. Pilipinas International crown. But after she flunked in the Q&A portion, she right away lost her chances at the title. Meanwhile, first-runner up Rosalyn Santiago was said to be the “most hated” candidate for being “proud, too aggressive and sometimes boastful.”
Oh well, should all these be true, I actually don’t care because I like those who have been chosen for the three respective titles. Their beauties are very oriental that I believed they would definitely steal the scene in the international pageants they’ll be competing in. And of course, with Denille Lou Valmonte, Lia and Anna, trust that they’d do good in the interview portion because all three women have great communication skills. So I say, thank you judges for choosing them to represent the country!
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I had a sumptuous dinner at the newly reopened Yo Latino restobar along Salinas drive in Lahug last Wednesday courtesy of JY’s Junjie Gonzales. I especially liked the spicy chicken wings and sisig and enjoyed drinking “sex by the beach” cocktail, after being intrigued by the concoction’s name. The place is very spacious and comfortable plus the waiters are very alert, courteous and good-looking! (He he he!) Yo Latino is definitely the place to go, if you are looking for comfort and a mouthwatering meal. Check it out!
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Catch the “Eat Bulaga” barkada live at Abellana Sports Complex at noon today and the “Pinoy Pop Superstar” finalists’ road show at the SM Cebu City covered terminal later at 6pm. Also don’t forget to cast your votes for the PBB housemate Budoy Marabiles to stay on by typing BB (space) Budoy and send to 2331 for Globe, Touch and Addict mobile subscribers and to 231 for Smart and Talk ‘N Text users.
Finally I won’t end this column without greeting a very happy birthday to two women who played important roles respectively in my writing job—Madam Mayen Tan (tomorrow, March 26) who was instrumental in my becoming an entertainment columnist and Mommy Rose Gaisano (today), who believed in me and always invited me to interview her guest celebrities. Thank you so much for your kindness.React at Libutine_real88@yahoo.com

2006-06-12T06:02:00.000-07:00

PenPoint
By: Ryan Mark

Historical but disappointing:
A Sunday of Contrasts
January 22 was one of the most colorful Sundays in Philippine history. During that day we witnessed the victory of boxing champ Manny “Pacman” Pacquiao, happening miles away in Las Vegas, Nevada, thanks to the blow-by-blow coverage of ABS-CBN courtesy of Solar Entertainment. And at night, back in our country, we witnessed the jubilee of R&B crooner Kris Lawrence as he joined ABS-CBN’s league of champion singers after besting “promdis” Tata Villaroel (Ilo-ilo) and our very own Jimmy Marquez.
Interesting to note is that Pacman had to go to the US to prove his worth in the boxing world, while Kris had to leave Uncle Sam’s land to find his place in the Philippine music industry. Nevertheless, that Sunday was undeniably a disappointing one for Cebuanos in particular—and for “promdis” in general—after Jimmy and Tata failed to clinch the top plum in the recently concluded “Search For A Star in A Million.”
It was a disappointing loss because after following previous performance nights of the SIAM hopefuls and then watching the top three in the final showdown I did not see anything “Hugyaw” (read: fabulous) or anything extraordinary in Kris’ performance last Sunday. My good friend and The Freeman community editor Divine Sanchez was actually uncomfortable with Kris’ rendition of Stevie Wonder’s “Lately” as Kris looked jolly on stage with his signature “pa-cute” look. Well, I looked the song’s lyrics up in the Internet and found out that it’s a sad love song, which talks about a woman leaving and uncertain of returning to a man who either loved her or not. This convinced me all the more that Kris interpreted it wrongly. Why should you be happy when you are about to lose someone special to you? When he had a duet with Pops Fernandez for the song “Closer to You,” he did better since it was a “pa-cute” song, anyway. But when he did another sad love song—“How Am I Suppose to Live Without You”—the “pa-cute” facial expression and some unfitting R&B-ish actuations came on again. So, I really could not fathom why he won.
But before you raise those brows in disagreement, let me tell you that I’m not barking out of bitterness because Jimmy lost. Actually, I myself don’t believe Jimmy should have won if his performance that night alone was the basis. Jimmy’s rendition of “The Power of Love” was not convincing enough because he did not really hit the high notes. Performance-wise, he was mediocre that night. I do not know why. Honestly, if I were to rank their performances, I would say Tata deserved to win, because she blended well with Gary Valenciano for a duet of Whitney Houston’s “Didn’t We Almost Had It All.” Then she delivered a splendid rendition of “Somewhere” in round three that I would agree with direk Rowell Santiago’s observation that Tata was the “biggest surprise” that night. If I may borrow a Tagalog phrase to describe Tata’s performance, I would say: “Nagmarka talaga.” It made an impact; she really captured the moment. So, for me Tata was the winner that night, and Jimmy would definitely be first runner-up.
Now, don’t get me wrong. I’m not putting Jimmy down, but I’m just being honest with my observation. After all, when you want to help someone improve his craft or you really value his growth, you should be direct and frank. Positive praises alone cannot help. Sometimes they are meant to simply flatter us. Because Jimmy is a friend and thus, dear to me, I should be honest with my feelings as far as his performance was concerned. I campaigned for Jimmy and in fact, gave him the needed publicity in “Banat Hugyaw” because I really believed in his talent. Agot Isidro’s comment before that Jimmy “owns the stage” was definitely true. He is such a performer so I want to see him reign high in the music world soon. His success, after all, would be my joy too because we are both Josenians, being MassCom graduates of University of San Jose-Recoletos; we’re both Cebuanos; and most important of all, we’re both gays. It is just that in every contest or endeavor for that matter, there is always what you call the “right moment to shine.” Sad to say, it was not Jimmy’s right moment. But hey, there’s still a long way to go. Agot was right again when in her parting statement she told Jimmy to “go the distance.”
But then again I can’t just play deaf to earlier rumors that from the start, ABS-CBN, particularly the big bosses of Star Records, was already eyeing Kris for the top plum. This due to their desperate need for a counterpart of R&B Prince Jay-R who is a prized possession of rival Kapuso network. Interestingly, Jay-R and Kris are really good friends. The former convinced the latter to come to the Philippines and try his luck. In fact, when the Cebu press asked Jay-R during a presscon at SM City Cebu two weeks ago on what he thought were the chances of Kris in the final showdown, his immediate response was “He would win.” Such certainty left me asking myself, was the rumor about ABS-CBN favoring Kris really true? It’s obvious that the Kapamilya network badly needed someone who could be the next R&B prince, as evidenced by their reported efforts to pirate Jay-R.
Jay-R is very in demand and popular these days, his singles are selling like hot cakes and has commercial endorsements left and right. The R&B prince is indeed giving competitors a run of their money. Remember that rumor last year that Jay-R was jumping ship to ABS-CBN? His response in our recent interview with him was “ah, intriga lang po yon.” It was indeed because his contract with GMA Artist Center is expiring on 2007. So if they cannot have Jay-R, why not build up someone to challenge him? Clever idea, after all.
However, with the recent SIAM results, it seems ABS-CBN has not learned its lesson yet. Take Christian Bautista and our very own Sheryn Regis, for example, both of whom Erik Santos defeated in the first SIAM contest. Christian is most recently honored with the title “Asia’s Pop Idol” after successfully capturing the hearts of our Asian neighbors via his song “The Way You Look At Me,” the carrier single of his first album called “Colours Everywhere.” And I’d say next to Christian, Sheryn is most popular and successful. And so where’s Erik Santos now? Yes he is visible on TV, but is he as hot a commodity as Christian and Sheryn? Never! The problem with ABS-CBN is that they appear to be after the looks rather than the talent. If I have my way I would rather have a newcomer oozing with potentials than having someone endowed with looks, but lacking in talent. What is the use of cosmetic surgery if we always go after the beautiful and the handsome?
The decision is well, final and irrevocable. So, let me just repeat my favorite line, which I have been saying in my previous columns: everything happens for a reason. When we fail it does not mean we are not good, but rather because God has bigger, brighter and better plans for us all. To Jimmy, I say: “Go the distance.” As what I told you last week through text, whatever happens you are a winner to me and that Cebuanos are so proud of you. Good luck!
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Thank you so much to Lapu-Lapu City police chief Louie Oppus, one of my favorite and close friends in the PNP, for following my journey since I’ve moved on as “Banat Hugyaw” editor. I’m so flattered when you said you read “Banat” since I started handling its entertainment section. And congratulations for a job well done after your unit was adjudged “Best City Police Station” in the entire Philippines. I’m so proud of you, friend. React @ libutine_real88@yahoo.com. Check me also at ryanmark.blogspot.com

P.L.U Band

2006-06-12T06:00:00.000-07:00

PENPOINT
By: Ryan Mark

Meet The ‘People Like Us’

What is PLU? This was exactly my question when I first heard about it. For someone, who barely has a nightlife, PLU was a virtual stranger to me. It took a while before I found out that the three-letter word stands for People Like Us. No, it’s not a human rights group, but actually a show band that’s gaining “it” status in the local music circuit. Barely eight months since it was founded, it has definitely found its niche in the local music scene.
Its biggest break came October of last year when they bagged the second prize in the nationwide search for GSM’s ultimate band. For a group that was only five-months-old then, that was a great achievement for PLU since it managed to topple other competing and fast-rising bands not only from the Queen City of the South, but also from the capital. Since then, invitations to perform came in abundance, with regular gigs in such high-end entertainment centers as Sunflower, Ratsky and Casino Filipino in Mactan.
Under the management of Eldi Carillo’s Ink Production, PLU is comprised of three vocalists—Juan Carlos Maralit, Andrea Navarro and Juan Paolo Mercado. The other members are Ian Resurrecion (drums), Harry Navarro (keyboards), Anthony Jimenez (bass) and Edward Jimenez (guitars). Of them all, Paolo acts as the leader being the eldest at 25. According to Paolo, their first three months as a group were never easy because there were constant misunderstandings when it came to schedules and professionalism.
“Mura ka’g magminyo. You do everything gyud for the good of the band. It takes a lot of teamwork gyud. Being the eldest the group, mura gyud ko og mother and father,” Paolo revealed.
The younger members, he said, would sometime confide to him about their love problems; and he has to attend to them or else their performance would suffer. There was also a time when professionalism became an issue because some would come in late during rehearsals or even during performances. Two band members find it hard to make it on time because they were residing in Sibonga. And that’s quite a problem, Paolo said, as he is very particular with time.
“But now we are willing to make sacrifices kay daghan na sad og naabot ang among grupo,” Paolo shared. He said members have drawn inspiration in the little achievements they’ve achieved so far. Some gigs they cherish include having the opportunity to join Parokya ni Edgar and Prince of R&B Jay-R in separate shows last January, at the height of Sinulog festivities. They are also proud to have been part of a Microsoft-sponsored event at the Waterfront Lahug with Tuesday Vargas, Geneva Cruz and Sugarfree last January 25. That was a big deal for them because the requirement of the organizer was that performers must have played at Ratsky’s Cebu to qualify.
Last Thursday night, PLU was among the 40 local bands that took the time to perform for free at the Fuente circle for the benefit of the mudslide victims in St. Bernard, Southern Leyte. For them, one does not have to be wealthy to be of help; to share one’s talent in the most meaningful way possible is more than enough.
With more opportunities coming in, PLU is poised at conquering imperial Manila in due time. But Paolo pointed out that they do not have to be based there because all that matters to them is to have an album, which hopefully would become a hit, their would-be legacy in the music industry.
“We are planning to venture into composition and recording to be able to evolve,” Paolo said. “I’m the opposite of the hopeless romantic. I don’t like love songs so maybe it would reflect unsa gyud mi nga grupo.” He is a native of Manila, but it’s ironic he’d rather stay here because he likes very much Cebu’s culture and lifestyle.
“I was struck when Budoy (Mirabiles) cried on ‘Pinoy Big Brother’ because it’s sad to note that local artists are not given the chance or the needed support to improve their craft,” said Paolo, adding that he could not relate to the Philippine showbiz system where looks are given more importance than talent. “I did try to join theater projects in Manila but dili ko kasabot. So much corruption committed is being committed. There are directors that would ask you to sleep with them just to get a role,” he revealed.
Paolo is not new in the local entertainment circuit. He was once part of Al Evangelio’s highly acclaimed play “Calamba Joe,” where he sashayed the role of Juan Luna. His contemporaries then are now big names in the industry such as Sheryn Regis and Raki Vega.
“I love singing. I can act but dili ko kasakay when they (fans) call you idol. Ma-embarrass ko. Dili ko kasakay sa screaming ug sa autograph signing,” he confided.
That is why for him, he would rather stick with his bandmates and achieve their goals as a group rather than joining showbiz as a solo artist. He said they have invested so much effort for the success of their band, so all of them should reap the fruits of their labor in due time.React at Libutine_real88@yahoo.com

2006-06-12T05:21:00.000-07:00

PenPoint
By: Ryan Mark

Life’s surprises like a ‘box of chocolates’

In the movie “Forrest Gump,” its most popular line was “Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you gonna get.” It is, indeed, true in my case. Last May 7, a day before I celebrated my second anniversary as entertainment columnist, my colleague and friend Fred Languido sent me a text message saying he recommended me to the management of the radio station dyLA to host a daily entertainment program. It came as a surprise to me.

Who would have thought this would come to me when only two months ago, I was thinking of applying for program handler in any radio station because I missed broadcasting a lot? The opportunity came at the right time—and who was I to refuse such a very good offer?

I grabbed it right away with the conditions: there will be no pretensions and exaggerations of my being a gay and most especially the program should carry a lot of sense, more interviews, profiling and discussions.

And so eight days after my second anniversary, my show “OkRyan” debuted in the airwaves, reuniting me with my first love—radio broadcasting—and at the same time giving me the pleasure to reach a wider audience. As you may have known already, I started with El Nuevo Bantay Radyo in 2000. After a one-year stint as a city hall beat reporter, I resigned, thirsty for additional learning and adventure. I found my way to The Freeman Newspaper on July 9, 2001. I remember telling myself then that I want to be part of this prestigious publication so that my name would be written down in the annals of history as among those who have worked for the oldest paper in Cebu. I thought six months would be enough and that I will move on to my next priority. But look at me now: I’ll be celebrating my fifth year anniversary in this publication two months from now.

There were a lot of times I thought of resigning, but the friendships that I have found and built within the four corners of the newsroom always stop me from doing so. Plus I love what is happening to my job right now. From being a defense beat reporter of more than four years, everything has changed dramatically as I now write for the entertainment and lifestyle sections of The Freeman, not to mention the editor of Hugyaw, the entertainment section of our tabloid Banat News. From the pressure-filled defense beat, I am now more relaxed and composed. I have the control of what and when to write articles. I would say I am having the best of both worlds. Again, life is like a big box of chocolates.

When I resigned from my radio job, I told myself I would never do it again because I already knew how things were in the radio broadcasting field. But as they say “once a broadcaster always a broadcaster” that I’m into it again. My affair with the entertainment world is another story worth telling. When I was still an intern at Bantay Radyo, a lot of times, I refused to deliver showbiz news since I didn’t want to be typecast that just because I’m a gay, I’m limited to reporting that stuff. And then, I also refused to do police stories because I found it shallow. But what happened? When I joined The Freeman, it was me who personally asked to be assigned to the defense beat because I want to prove that even if I’m gay I could do hard news. For more than four years, I was so much into it, engrossed by the gory, violent and tragic stories. I loved every minute of it. Hopefully in the future, I could do hard news again and by then, it would be for TV, like the reports in the award-winning documentary programs “I Witness,” “Reporters Notebook” and “Correspondents.”

Anyway, it was while I was with the defense beat that I realized that I also wanted to do showbiz stories. I wanted to be closer to the stars to know their tales and what they are made of. And so my love affair with the entertainment world began, courtesy of Madam Marlinda Angbetic Tan. From then on, I was never afraid of being typecast because I already knew my worth in the hard news department. Being a hard news reporter trained me in a way to formulate questions quickly and always see to it that these are asked at the right time. I’ve also learned to read between the lines and detect when the subject is lying by mere looking at the eyes and facial expressions. And so when the good president of The Star Group of Publications, Sir Miguel Belmonte, asked me last December if I was interested in taking charge of Banat’s Entertainment Section, I said yes right away. I have nothing to worry because with my experience, I could readily tell myself that I’ve “been there, done that.’

Now I am so thankful I took that path because I was able to open my “boxes of chocolates.” The boxes of chocolates showed me the way to what I really want. With my brand new radio program, I am hoping to open more and more boxes that would expose me to the real meaning of my existence. As my mother has told me, so sickly was I as an infant that they thought I would never make it. But I have survived to tell that story now. I know I have a mission, but what is it? I know God will show me the way. Dreams do really come true, though the truth is I still can’t believe I have come this far from just a virtual islander and college nobody? I am so blessed. God has been so good to me; I don’t know how to thank Him. He has been there since day one; and this is what reminds me to remain humble.

Anyway, “OkRyan” goes on air every 3 to 4pm, from Monday to Friday over at dyLa (“labing tinamod ug tinahod nga radio news organization sa Sugbu”), 909 khz on your dial. “OkRyan” could actually mean two things: if you like me you say—Ok si Ryan—and if you don’t you take it as it really is—“okryan,” the Tagalog term to refer to a brutally frank comment. Following the format of Banat Hugyaw, local talents are given equal exposure in “OkRyan” with their Manila counterparts, who will be featured every now and then.

I have always believed that given the right break and support, local talents can truly make it big in the capital. That was why my first guests were Miss Cebu 2006 Stephanie Seneres, Soundtraxx manager Gani Villarojo, who used to part of the then popular quartet SAKDAP, and college classmate Maria Donna, who is now slowly making a name in Manila though her self-titled album” Maria Donna Make It Happen,” also joined me via phone patch. To them thank you so much because it was only a matter of text or a call and they graciously shared me their valuable time. So if you like my cause and that is to promote our very own talents and sources of pride, join me every afternoon and let’s all shout OkRyan!

There are so many people to thank for, let me start it with God who is the driver of my journey, my Bantay Radyo family who took me in, The Freeman who welcomed me with open arms even if I had only nothing to offer but guts, Madam Mayen Tan who gave me the break, to my editor Nathalie Tomada who painstakingly takes care of my nonsense articles (he he he), to our general manager Sir Bhoy Mendoza who always believed in me and who allowed me to take this radio job, to our President Sir Miguel Belmonte for telling me I can do it, to our editor Sir Rolex Olmido who never fails to give me words of encouragement, to Sir Nimrod Quiñones who boosts my confidence every time he tells me I’m his favorite columnist (chuva!), to Super Bobby Nalzaro who always fight for my rights especially in those times was ridiculed in the defense beat, to Cebu Federation of Beat Journalists President Joy Tumulak for always believing in me, to the production and art people of the Freeman for always brightening my day, to friends Garry B. Lao, Vatski, Brenda Batuto and Eleonor Valeros who always contribute articles, to good friends Jovy Taghoy, Joeberth Ocao, Minerva Gerodias, Kathy Navaro, Divine Sanchez, Iste Sesante, Manny Villaruel Earl Rallos Johnrey Nadela, Jun Veleganio, Niza Marinas, Jud Morning Bacalso, Rianne Tecson, Charmaine Rodriguez, Allan Majait, Sir Roger Serna, Manay Kriss Relatado, Chicoy Tomol, Dexter Alazas, Mama Ramil Solis, Sir Junji Gonzales, Ms Aicha Tabanera Sir Dodong Morallo, Troy Ciar, Trixie Tolentino, Ann Marie Tan, Flora Mata, Joy Bautista, Kapuso and Kapamilya Networks and all those who in one way or another have helped me become who I am. They include my police friends, Retired General Robert Delfin, General Avelino Razon, General Ronald Roderos, Colonels Melvin Gayotin, Paul Labra, Louie Oppus and Joseph Obenza, Major Rex Derilo, City Fire Marshall Isamel Codilla, Sr Inspector George Yllanan and everybody who showed me the ropes in the police beat. To Flor Perolina and Mia Abellana for the good ‘ol times together, and of course, to my family for embracing me for what and who I am. How could I forget Mommy Rose Gaisano for letting me interview her celebrity guests from Manila always? And also to my fourth family-station dyLA—Jun Tagalog, Jhunex Napallacan, Chito Aragon, Fred Languido, and most especially to Madam Marit Remonde who welcomed me with a gallon of ice cream. To all my dear readers, thank you very much. Please join me in saying…OkRyan!

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2006-06-12T05:18:00.000-07:00

PenPointBy: Ryan Mark
“Scriptwriting” in Showbiz

When I was still in the defense beat, we would often jokingly declare, “scripted,” in referring to a statement given either by arresting officers or the one arrested every time we doubt the veracity of a story or when we feel that the information given to us was too good to be true. And so there were times I would kid senior police officers by asking, “Who wrote the script?” Of course, all those were meant as a joke, but then some good things came out of it for such a joke allowed me to clearly see “both sides of the coin,” so to speak. But we, in the beat, also knew that every time we say “scripted,” we likened the turn of events to a making of a movie, where there is a producer, director, actors and of course, a writer. But then again, defense beat is defense beat where everything should be based purely on facts and wherein a good journalist should strive not to be blinded by the scripts weaved by the people around. No matter how many scripts there are one should come out with a sound judgment to unearth the truth. That’s what I call hardcore journalism.
In showbiz, it’s a different story because “scriptwriting” is a must especially for up and coming stars. Power brokers abound, public relations moguls are on alert, and all of them have one common goal—to come up with an excellent script to either make or break a star. Unlike in the defense beat, “scripts” in showbiz serve as the “bread and butter” of everybody who resides in this interesting world of teeming with masquerade, pretension and intrigues. Thus if your “scriptwriter” is dull and boring, then expect to be going down to the dogs. Maybe you are wondering now why I’m talking too much about scripts and how they are made.
Well, forgive me but I am just carried away by my emotions due to the recent controversies hounding the so-called “teleserye ng totoong buhay” of ABS-CBN—the Pinoy Big Brother Teen Edition.I cursed myself now for believing the “script” recited by teen mom Jamilla Obispo where she claimed she was forced to work as Guest Relations Officer of a high-end bar to be able to afford her son Miggy’s five operations on his cleft palate and that the father of the child left them so she is carrying the burden alone. I remember telling myself this girl has great chances of winning because viewers would sympathize with her sob story. And I was not wrong at all because everybody was talking about Jamilla’s motherly act; the votes are coming in, in her favor. What a well-crafted script! Until everything spin out of control when controversies hounded her so that she was eventually voted out during the final eviction night last Saturday. What are these controversies then? Everything is well said in various Internet forums dedicated to PBB. First, that Jamilla was already a GRO even before she gave birth to Miggy, and that the father of her son did not leave them actually but was sued by her mother for statutory rape twice, that the father visits Miggy in San Pablo Laguna every now and then but has no permanent job and that Jamilla and her Ate who is also a single mom resides at a condo unit in Laguna together without their parents. As if these were not enough, bloggers particularly those from Laguna claimed she tried to abort the child resulting to his deficiency, that she had several relationships with men in the vicinity.Moreover, that she is not broke at all because she drove a Porsche in going to Embassy bar (the place where social climbers and spoiled brats mingle) in Manila and going back to Laguna every night, that she was always drunk, that she has a benefactor—a Chinese businessman who gave her the car and who was supposed to fly them to the United States for Miggy’s operation and the most controversial of all is that Jamilla never auditioned for PBB as she merely submitted her portfolio to her bar manager who gave it to a Kapamilya director who was a regular customer of the establishment. In addition, some claimed an influential TV Host was just the one who twisted the story surrounding Jamilla’s background to be able to solicit public sympathy.Yes these might just be plainly intrigues but what makes all these really suspicious is the fact that ABS-CBN neither confirm nor deny these, in short they do not bother to comment. Blogs against Jamilla started appearing in Internet forums as early as May 9 yet it was not tackled during the live guesting of Jamilla in The Buzz last Sunday. It would have been a big boost to the ratings of that said showbiz oriented talk show. With such allegations that Jamilla did not audition it somehow taints the credibility of PBB which is ironically dubbed as ‘teleserye ng totoong buhay.” Let’s face it since these issues came out in Internet forums Jamilla’s appeal to the public has greatly decreased so that her votes vanished. What a pitiful Jamilla, should she decide to tell the truth now people will already have second thoughts on her honesty. More over what a pitiful scriptwriter that the fibers of what was supposed to be an interesting story dried up and eventually became a flop.It was such a mediocre script after all. Should all these intrigues against Jamilla are true she would have made use of these to come up with a masterpiece. What she should have done was admit the real truth and asked for forgiveness with a promise that she would reform given the second chance. Let’s face it Filipinos are very forgiving and hospitable, reason why our very own Keanna Reeves won because she was brave enough to admit her dark past and promised to start a new beginning. In showbiz the best script after all is one that speaks with transparency, sincerity and humility. Now the ball is in the hands of ABS-CBN and that is to prove that selection of contestants is real and rigid, that is not merely based on whom you know and how influential your talent scout is. Actually I was already doubtful about the selection because look at who managed to get inside the house, majority of them are from Mega Manila- Pasay, Quezon and Makati. Well tonight is the culmination of everything and with the positioning of the big four it looks like the promdis Kim, Gerald and Clare have great chance of making it as the big winner. Wait a minute, was the selection in the province difficult and true as compared to those in mega Manila that if these rumors against Jamilla are to be believed could be interpreted as something based in “palakasan system”?Anyway from the looks of it, seems our very own Kim is going to win. She is the favorite of everybody and she really has the makings of a star, beauty and personality wise. Will Cebuanos emerge victorious and celebrate tonight? Keep your fingers crossed and keep praying! After all, hers is a sincere and honest script.Finally let’s beat the rush hour by casting our votes for Kim. Type in BB Kim and send it to 2331 for Globe and Sun Cellular subscribers and 231 for Smart, Talk and Text and Addict Mobile subscribers.Call Dial 1908- BROTHER (2768437) and follow voice instructions Votecards. Buy PBB vote Cards at National Bookstore from 25 to 500 denominations.Lastly somebody called up the office last Thursday and complained that they do not know anymore when is my column coming out. Thanks for the concern, friends. Pen Point comes out twice a month particularly every first and third Saturdays.React @ libutine_real88@yahoo.com

His Moment to Shine

2006-06-12T04:34:00.000-07:00

PenPoint
By: Ryan Mark

TV reporter Jun Veleganio
HIS MOMENT TO SHINE

Bisdak reporter Jun Veleganio has been a friend for almost five years. Together, we had been to a lot of action-packed coverage when I was still in the defense beat – from vigilante killing, drug raids, hostage drama, to bank robberies. If not sharing stories, we would joked around during a seemingly uneventful day, that would prompt us to embark on a “fishing expedition,” a term to refer to our way of coming up stories by hanging out with news sources. I’m telling you all these to illustrate the kind of friendship I have with Jun V.
Like ABS-CBN’s Junrey Nadela, Jun V. was one of the few people who showed me the ropes at the defense beat, a turf dominated by men, that a gay like would be considered an oddity. And so I thought I knew everything about Jun V. only to realize later that I still have a lot to learn about this very humble person, who never forgot where he came from.
His life story is one for the books – an inspiring tale of an islander whose only dream was to have a good life. The 11th child in a brood of 14, Jun V.’s father was a fisherman, while his mother was a housewife. Life in Bantayan, where he was born and raised, was definitely no smooth ride. At 15, he was forced to leave his hometown and worked at the Carbon market. For seven years, despite subsisting on a very meager income, he still managed to send part of it to his family. But work finally took a toll on his health, forcing him to return to Bantayan Island. Back at home, he decided to go back to school.
“Nahunahuna nako nga kon mag-standby rako didto walay mahitabo nako mahimo rasad ko nga mananagat. Mao to nga nibalik ko og eskuyla bisag dako nakog edad,” he recalled. At 19, he was elected barangay councilman in Baigan and when he turned 22, he went back to high school as a sophomore. Upon graduation, he took the risk of coming back to Cebu to pursue a college degree. He did not even have P80 for the boat fare, but the crew pitied him that he was granted a free ride.
He enrolled in B.S. in Mathematics at the then Cebu State College (now Cebu Normal University). He admitted that the first two years in college were the hardest. It was during these times when he just memorized his meals for the lack of money to buy food. Sometimes his father would send him dried fish that he would share with his boardmates who had given him something to eat. His landlady would not ask for payment for the rent as long as he did cleaning chores like scrubbing and mapping the floor. “Mutuo kag sa dili yot (our endearment) usahay kanang gutom na kaayo akong huwaton nga makatulog ang akong mga boardmates unya manungkab kog bahaw para masudlan sad tawon akong nagkutoy nga tiyan,” he recalled, a bit teary eyed.
You might wonder how this math major got into the broadcasting world. That was all because his course, then under the College of Arts and Sciences, had radio internship as a requirement. So he did it at the then popular radio station dyRC. He was only supposed to tag along to a senior reporter, but on his second day he was hired because the station’s management liked his modulated voice and delivery style. He was no stranger to radio reporting actually because he was already doing the rounds as disco announcer in Bantayan in his school years. Because of this new job, his financial worries were slowly becoming easy to bear.
Since Jun V. was a night shift reporter, he could not help but doze off during his day classes, but his teachers were considerate enough not to wake him up. Jun V. stayed with dyRC from 1995 until 1999 when the station closed down. It was around this time the Kapuso network opened its doors to him as pioneering reporter for “Balitang Bisdak.”
At 37, Jun V. is happy to have come this far. “Mapasalamaton ko sa akong naabtan karon,” he declared. His only hope now is for his two children to finish their education so that they would not go through the hardships he personally experienced. There is only one thing he wishes to accomplish for himself and that is to get to write a newspaper column someday. But he is humble enough to admit that his English is not that good yet, and that he’s trying his best to improve it.
Indeed, blessed are those who never forget their humble beginnings because graces would never stop coming. Jun V.’s good breaks started peaking early last year when the newly energized “Balitang Bisdak” was relaunched. This time, he was trusted enough to feed live updates before the camera. He pinched hit for multi-awarded tri-media personality Bobby Nalzaro as anchor of the newscast, when the latter went on vacation early part of this year. Call it a blessing, but the rating during his stint went up close to 30%. Jun V. could not ask for more.
His biggest break ever, however, has unfolded via a report he did for GMA-7’s award-winning documentary program “Reporter’s Notebook” last Tuesday. It was about vigilantism in the city, a topic he was very knowledgeable of. Actually, I envy this good friend of mine for such remarkable experience of his and for making history as the first among the Kapuso’s roster of regional reporters to gain score nationwide exposure. At the same time, I’m happy for him because this hardworking reporter deserves such a break.
Even if some said his Tagalog sounded very hard and “Bisaya,” the program manager told him he did well. He admitted though that he needed to work on his delivery because he talks too fast. “Giingnan ko nga huwag masyadong malakas at mabilis magsalita. Tungod man gud na sa akong pagka radioman sauna nga magdali kog sulti kay mahadlok ko nga ma dead air. Karon maniguro na ko nga pareha na sa taga Manila ang delivery, nga mura ra kag nag-istorya.”
Now who says poverty is a hindrance to success? Take it from Jun Veleganio – and you’ll surely have an inspiring story to tell when the right time comes.
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Don’t fail to watch my good friend Jude Bacalso’s play “Welcome to IntelStar” at CAP Center along Osmeña Boulevard at 7pm tonight. He plays the lead in this timely act that tackles the lives of call center agents. If not proceed to the Mandaue Sports Complex and get the chance to watch the coronation night of the next Miss Mandaue City. React@Libutine_real88@yahoo.com

Favorite Celebrity Quotes

2005-12-27T22:38:00.000-08:00

PENPOINT By Ryan Mark
The Freeman 12/28/2005

Words could either make or break a person. We are often judged by what we say and how we say it. Such is the magic of words-if you use them well and wisely, you leave a good impression. Others call it eloquence. I prefer to call it verbal persuasion. Nevertheless, what you say should always be sincere and direct. Showbiz stars are no exemption. Those who use words for "press release" purposes (safe answers, to aptly put it) often fail to secure my attention. Those who stand out are the stars who are brave and bold to speak out what they really think and feel. I have come across a handful of stars this year but so far only six have made quite an impression on me because of their frankness and honesty. Theirs are the statements I have come to love and sometimes made me clap in admiration. Topping my list is Alessandra de Rossi, whose quotable quotes include her answer to the question on her stand on virginity (Meeting Valentina, April 30): "Talagang yon ay para sa mag-asawa lang. Pinalaki kami ng mommy namin na ganon ang pananaw namin. Di bale nang maaga kang mag-asawa. Siguro kaya maagang nag-asawa ang kapatid ko siguro gusto niyang ibigay ang sarili niya sa taong mahal niya. Yong mommy ko nung ikinasal siya virgin pa so gusto niya ganon din ang mangyari sa amin." That actually surprised me because I had always thought of Alessandra, being the typically modern young woman that she is, as very open-minded when it comes to matters like virginity and pre-marital sex. Another unforgettable comment of hers was when I asked what else is there to know about her when her life is already an open book: "Siguro wala na akong dapat pang ipaalam sa publiko eh. Kumbaga kung ano mang nakikita nila, masama man, bahala na silang maghusga. Anyway, hindi naman ako ang nagkakaroon ng kasalanan 'pag naghuhusga sila, sila naman." Second on my list is the rising star, actress-model-VJ Cindy Kurleto (A beautiful face, a beautiful mind, May 25) for being a bombshell with her statements. Take this one for example: "ABS-CBN dropped me like a hot potato after 'Masayang Tanghali Bayan' and now they need and pray that I go back. Why? Plus it's their fault. If they are so desperate right now it's their fault, they should learn from it, di ba? And then I saw how much Jericho suffered when he had to pretend to love Kristine. He cried, he suffered. So why should I go back into a loveteam with Echo, not really in love with him but because I have to pretend? Jericho is such a talented actor but still has to sell his privacy. You think that it's fair?" Cindy made these revelations at the height of ABS-CBN's search for the perfect leading lady for ex-boyfriend Jericho Rosales in "Panday." Some readers opined that her statements were full of bitterness. It could be the case, but the important thing is that she was being real by not hiding her true feelings. "I have income from MTV, GMA why should I give them 30 percent of that? We have so many beautiful Filipinas and do you see anyone of those joining Bb. Pilipinas? No. And why? Because it's so much smarter not to. If they would adjust their rules we could bring out so much beautiful candidates for Miss Universe, Miss World." Cindy made another brave statement, justifying her disinterest in joining the country's most prestigious pageant. There are reports saying that a winner of the said pageant would be made to sign a contract stipulating that organizers get 30% of the beauty queen's income in the next six to eight months. Another star impressed me with this disclosure: "Minsan nung busy na kami sa taping ng Spirits nakakalimutan na naming magsimba. Even lighting a candle that one time, masyadong mahirap gawin. I cried kasi feeling ko ang layo layo ko na sa Panginoon. Sabi ko sa kanya, 'Lord galit ka na ba sa akin?'" This came from the mouth of Maja Salvador while we lighted candles at the Basilica del Sto. Niño before proceeding to Gaisano Balamban for her mini-show. This gave me a glimpse of how strong her faith in God is. Later that day, when our van was having difficulty negotiating the curves of the trans-central highway on the way back to the Cebu City proper, she blurted out "Ay naku! Huwag na tayong mag-iinarte. Patayin na natin ang aircon at i-open natin ang windows para hindi mahirapan masyado ang sasakyan." In a rare, no holds barred interview with one of the country's hottest and most sought-after actors, Richard Gutierrez (And my love for Aguiluz begins, March 2), his winning statements included: "Kasi ang dami ng problema ng Pilipinas di ba? Siguro land sharing for the poor. Kasi ang dami nating lands na puwede namang tirahan ng mga tao. Ang daming tao na walang bahay, walang lupa kasi we need to buy everything. I think sharing is what is important." This was his answer to the question that if he were a Mulawin with powers in real life, what problem in the country does he want to address. When also asked what he would do to help the ailing movie industry, he waxed rather political by saying: "I think a lot of the youth are more creative in terms of film-making but the people, I think have lost their trust towards the film industry. We should regain that trust like how it was before. And I think it can help the country a lot." "Kasi before puro friends lang. Sa barkada ko lang hinihingi ang payo. Na-realize ko na at the end of the day, no matter what happens family pa rin ang aalalay sa 'yo," answered Valerie Concepcion (A Second Chance at Stardom, July 27) when asked about lessons learned after becoming a single mom at the age of 16. "Everything happens for a reason. I don't have to think about it (early motherhood) anymore na. Kung ano ang mayroon ako ngayon, yun ang i-wo-work out ko," she added. Completing the magic six is my favorite "kontrabida" to date: Katrina Halili. I would never forget her reason for ordering a teenager to leave the stage during her show at Gaisano Countrymall last week: "I'm the type of person na hindi namimilit eh. Kung ayaw mo sa akin, fine. So when he said, 'kiss raw' ibig sabihin ayaw niya so ayun. Ako kasi hindi ko sila hinahayaan na awayin nila ako. Kung aawayin nila ako sa stage inaaway ko rin sila." Here's also an excerpt from a soon-to-be-printed interview: "Nasa tao lang yan eh. Ano na ngayon ibang generation na. Sa akin okay lang. Kasi kung mahal mo talaga yong tao hindi kailangan ng ganon kahit ano pa siya. Di ba totoo? Pano kung nadisgrasya lang? Pano kung nainlove lang pala tapos hindi lang sinasadya. Kasi kung mahal mo yong tao kailangan walang limitations sa kanya." This was her answer when I asked her if she holds virginity important. So, that's it. Of course, there are other stars I talked to this year who supplied me with good answers, but I'm having difficulty discerning their sincerity. Actually, my interview with Sunshine Dizon could be top 7, as she was also straightforward. Anyhow, my selection was based on how their statements made an impact on me personally. Advance happy New Year! May we all have a prosperous 2006 and may you still be reading me next year!

* * *Thank you to the kind people who sent me Christmas gifts. May God bless you more come 2006. React @ Libutine_real88@yahoo.com, text to 0919-3194947 or check my blog: ryanmark.blogs.com.

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Things that I've learned from Maximo

2005-12-06T21:39:00.000-08:00

PENPOINT By Ryan MarkThe Freeman 12/07/2005

I turned 26 years old last Monday. Careerwise, I have so much to thank God for this year. First, I'm thankful for the continuous opportunity to write this weekly column (hopefully you are still reading me). Then a few months ago, I started writing for Banat Entertainment. It is not only fun but a learning experience as well since it makes me bi-lingual now. Third, I have made it to the core group of The Freeman Foundation wherein getting in touch with less fortunate children keeps me grounded and humble. Fourth, I clinched this year's Gayest of the Press, a definite boost to my confidence. Fifth, I'm grateful for the support of my family and friends. Lastly, I'm thankful for the positive feedbacks I get from readers young and old alike that truly inspire me to always write from the heart. By God's grace, in the year 2006, I hope to land a career in television to learn more and push myself to the limits. Now, you may ask: how about love life? Well, I would say I am always inspired. I am 26 years old but I feel I'm still sweet 16 these days. Gosh! I have so many "kilig" moments that I can't help but smile especially when I am alone, reminding me of the movie "Ang Pagdadalaga ni Maximo Oliveros." I watched it with a good friend last week and we both enjoyed it so much. Directed by Aureus Solito and distributed in the country by Star Cinema, it is such a good, family-oriented movie with a lot of lessons. It tells the story of Maximo (or "Maxi" for short, who was played by Nathan Lopez), a 12-year- old gay and youngest in a brood of three. His two elder brothers with their father are petty criminals-snatchers to be specific. Maxi does the household chores and it's amazing how his family accepts and supports his being gay. At first, everything goes well for Maxi, who after his chores, would go out with gay teeners, and watch movies of Claudine Barretto, compete in a Miss Gay Contest at a friend's house, or goes around the neighborhood to sell jai-alai numbers. One time, he comes home late and as he passes through a dark and dirty alley leading to his home in the slums, two boys grab him and begin undressing him. He would have been raped if not for the arrival of his knight in shining armor in the person of Victor (JR Valentin). For that, Maxi falls for the handsome policeman and his world revolve around him. Maxi would cook for him, keep him company and other things a teen-ager would do to someone special. But everything has to come to an end. A new police chief gets installed and Victor gets to head a special unit that would aggressively pursue criminals. At this junction, a 16-year-old boy gets killed after being robbed of his mobile phone. Maxi has an idea who is the culprit-his brother. At this time, serious policeman Victor, gets the ire of Maxi's father because their business is becoming affected by the former's intervention. Victor then tries to penetrate the underworld via Maxi to unearth vital information. Maxi now finds himself caught between his love for his family and for infatuation for Victor. To whose side should he be? To make the story short, the cops arrest the other brother of Maxi, after mistaking him as the one responsible for the death of the 16-year-old. Then the police chief kills his father, which Maxi witnesses from afar. The brother detained gets released eventually and they start all over again. In the end, his brothers send Maxi back to school. The ending of the movie shows Maxi passing by Victor who is waiting for him beside the road. For Maxi, Victor has become a part of his past; his admiration for him gone. Actually, I love it so much because it tells us that teenagers should prioritize school rather than the matters of the heart. In general, the movie teaches us that members of the third sex should not be ridiculed but rather be embraced with open arms for them to excel. We are humans too. We have the privilege to choose what we want and whom we want to be with. To parents, don't curtail your son's liberty. If he shows gay tendencies then let him be. Never subject him to physical abuse or other forms of humiliation. My personal observation is that the more a gay child is battered and controlled, the more he grows up rebellious. The sad thing is that he pretends to be masculine in front of you when in reality he is not. Then it becomes a sin because both of you would be living in a world of deception and lies. Being gay is not a curse-it's a gift. All you have to do is nurture support and mold your gay son to become a better person. Show him the way-instead of blocking his path-because his success is yours too. On the personal side, Maximo reminded me of my own teen years. I was 14 years old when I had a crush on someone whom I really did not expect would become a very good friend today. I would be jealous over girlfriend and the women he'd be dating. But, of course, I know where I stand in his heart. We had misunderstandings every now and then but these can be patched up in less than 24 hours. I tried to forget him many times but to no avail. I have just realized that no matter how many times I go out on dates, at the end of the day, it is still him whom I want to be with. He means so much to me that a simple "hi" from him would never fail to brighten my day. An engineer by profession, my crush remains single at 34. Twelve years since I had my eyes on him, the feeling stays intense until now. But unlike Maxi who stole a kiss from Victor, there is nothing sexual between me and my ultimate crush and I love it that way because it's more thrilling. Last Sunday I had lunch at their house and I slept in his room, and nothing more. To me he is a special friend, a big brother and a crush rolled into one. I have a high regard for him and I know the feeling is mutual. You might not believe what I have just revealed but it's true and it's possible because I was brought up well by my parents that I fully understood what is moral and what is not. So Maximo Oliveros, thank you so much for inspiring and making me feel like a teenager once again.
* * *Thank you so much to all my friends who remembered my birthday last Monday especially to SM City Cebu management through its charming and energetic public relations supervisor Aicha Tabañera who delivered a mouth-watering banana cake to our office. Thanks also to my good editor for always making my columns better and to Madam Mayen Tan for making it possible that you are reading me now. React at libutine_real88@yahoo.com or text me at 09193194947.
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2005-11-17T14:19:00.000-08:00

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Lessons from Wowowee

2005-11-16T23:23:00.000-08:00

By: Ryan Mark Borinaga

From the looks of it, the Kapamilya network has gone a step closer to the hearts of Cebuanos and those living in neighboring islands after its successful staging of "Wowowee" at Ayala Center Cebu last Saturday. As early as Wednesday, hopefuls from as far as Samar, Davao and Masbate started lining up to register for the "Pera o Bayong" portion the next day. By Thursday, the number soared up to more or less 30,000, prompting the bigwigs of the show to pick 100 contestants instead of the usual 50. "Para mas maraming Cebuanos ang magkakaroon ng pagkakataon maging milyonaryo," or so went their teaser. From Thursday up to the big day, the Ayala area was jampacked. And on the live telecast itself, it was like a fiesta was taking place where everyone was happy, merry and gay (never mind if about 20 spectators lost their mobile phones to pickpockets that day). But what is the underlying message of that short-lived happiness? It tells us that underneath that many a smile and laughter lies the fervent prayer of winning the P1 million. This was what The FREEMAN reporter Jasmine Uy discovered last Thursday in her interviews with some of those who registered. What drove them to wait in line, even if it meant forever, are poverty and other hard realities of life-from an ailing husband who had to be hospitalized to a house that badly needs repair. One who stood out was the disabled man interviewed by the "TV Patrol" crew who said he joined because he wanted to win and buy himself a wheelchair. In the end, the lucky winner was Agustina Peralez, a housewife from Compostela who brought home a passenger jeep. Initially, Peralez was unsure, changing her mind about five times. When the cash reached P100,000, she told main host Willie Revillame that she'd go for "Pera." While watching her on TV, I already knew she had chosen the "bayong" that either contained the P1 million or the jeep because everytime she'd declare she was settling for the money, Willie would always shout "Ano ang sigaw ng mga taga-Cebu?" And then later on, he changed his line to: "Ano ang kulay ng jeep?" That was the time I heard myself screaming "bayong, bayong." And so she went for the bayong. During a press conference at the Casino Filipino in Waterfront Lahug with Willie, Kat Alano, Janelle Jamer, production manager Malou Almaden, etc., the people behind the show expressed how they wanted a Cebuano to win the million. Almaden noted that it was their way of saying thank you, because after years of changing shows to compete against "Eat Bulaga," it's only "Wowowee" that has proven to be the most successful as far as ratings are concerned. Almaden clarified that having "Wowowee" in Cebu was in no way intended to challenge the presence of the cast of GMA 7's "Lagot Ka, Isusumbong Kita" at SM entertainment plaza. "Our objective talaga is [to entertain] the people. 'Yong show nila hindi po namin iniisip talaga." Ms. Tata Cinco Sy, station manager of ABS-CBN Cebu, also announced during the presscon that in Cebu, based on a survey by A.C Nielsen dated October 24 to 29, "Wowowee" garnered a 17.4% rating as compared to the 5.8% rating of "Eat Bulaga." Apart from the total entertainment the show gave us, thus earning my admiration, the presence of "Wowowee" also made me realize that a lot, indeed, are living destitute lives that they're more than willing to bet their futures in a gamble of chance. Who is to blame then? During the 9 a.m. mass at Basilica del Sto. Niño last Sunday, the priest, whose homily was about the Parable of the Talents, asked the churchgoers: Who is to blame if we now linger in poverty? Is it our political leaders? For me, they are partly to blame, but the accusing finger should be pointed at us first, because for me, we go down the drain because we fail to recognize our God-given talents. Have you realized that living life in this world is like aspiring to be a star? Actors and actresses, before they became popular, went through the first step in life-knowing oneself. This means realizing one's weaknesses and strengths. After knowing who they really are, they began to dream and draw up a game plan. From then on, they never looked back, skyrocketing to fame and fortune. This is the name of the game: to get ahead in life is to know your priorities. You might say, how could I improve my way of living when I did not even finish elementary? I say: "Stars are made not born." Warlito Laquihon, a 1981 TOYM awardee, once said in an interview, "You've got to have a dream. People without dreams perish those who have flourish. And you've got to have faith and hope. Having these enables one to take steps toward that vision or dream." This statement worked for me. There's no reason why it shouldn't work for you. Let me tell you a story. As a high school freshman, I already knew I wanted to be in media. So I told myself I'd take up mass communication in college so that I may someday follow the footsteps of Vice President Noli de Castro. Fast-forward to May 1996: I was one of the "promdis" who stepped into the corridors of University of San Jose Recoletos, wanting to get accepted to its Communications Department. Two days after enrollment started, to my dismay, all 80 slots were taken that I had to be turned down. Take up A.B. English, I was told. I consoled myself with the thought I could shift to masscom in the second semester. But back at my grandmother's house, while watching "Eat Bulaga," the GMA Flash Report by Georgette Tengco came onscreen. Before I knew it, tears were running down my cheeks, prompting my mother to ask what was wrong. I replied: I want to be on TV like Tengco. So the next day, I was back at USJR, hurdled two examinations-entrance test and news writing-and eventually got in. But the agony did not end there, as most of the time my allowance would be delayed. For several times, I'd walk to USJR from my boarding house in Duljo-Fatima because I couldn't afford even the jeepney fare. I remember taking major exams with an empty stomach and a headache because the money sent to me was enough for my tuition and projects. There were occasions when I'd buy P2 worth of salted peanuts and then drink at the water fountain just so to appease my hunger. There were also times when I would stand at the lobby and muster the courage to borrow money from friends passing by to buy lunch. And how many times did I sleep in my classmates' house with the hope that I'd be offered a free dinner or breakfast? My college life was never easy but I didn't give up because of a dream. Of course, everything would not be possible without my faith in God, as nothing is more powerful than prayers. I'm telling you all these to let you know that to have a dream and a game plan can take you places. I'm quite sure Manang Agustina had one and found ways to realize it by braving the long lines just to get registered. Then she asked for divine intervention that, among thousands of hopefuls, hers will be picked. The rest is history. Friends, no matter how hard life is, for every problem, there's always a corresponding solution.
* * *Happy birthday to my good friend Rianne Tecson today, belated birthday greetings to another friend, Doris Bongcac, last November 10 and get well soon to one of my "idols" in this business who gave me the opportunity to write also for Banat Entertainment, our publisher Sir Juanito Jabat. React at Libutine_real88@yahoo.com or text to 09193194947.